SEX, SENSUALITY & THE SENIOR WOMAN

16 Reasons Younger Men
Are Attracted to Older Women

And why their attraction may have much less to do with age—and much more to do with the woman you’ve become.

You may be surprised by what younger men notice, value, and actively seek in an older woman. This complimentary guide explores 16 reasons the attraction is real—and why you may be far more desirable than you’ve been led to believe.

Perhaps the most surprising thing isn't that younger men are attracted to older women.

It's that so many older women have no idea that they are.

I’m Andrea Feinberg, M.B.A., longtime marketer and business coach.

For years, women have been handed a remarkably narrow story about aging, attractiveness and desire.

We’re told—sometimes subtly, sometimes not—that attention diminishes with age. That sensuality belongs to youth. That if a significantly younger man expresses interest, we should be suspicious, embarrassed or at least surprised.

But what if he's seeing something you haven't learned to see in yourself?

Experience can be attractive.

Confidence can be erotic.

And age may not mean what you've been taught it means.

The 16 reasons — thoughtful, credible reasons — may change the way you think about younger men. More importantly, they may change something about the way you see yourself.

Why am I talking about this?

Because I became curious about questions women my age aren’t particularly encouraged to ask.

Questions about attraction. Desire. Dating. Younger men. Sexuality. And what happens when a woman reaches an age when she’s supposedly expected to want less—and discovers that she may actually want more.

I’m the author of the newly published Sex, Sensuality & the Senior Woman, an exploration of what becomes possible when we stop assuming that age has already made certain decisions for us.

The 16 Reasons is where I'd like our conversation to begin.

You did not age out of desire.

You may have changed.

Your body may have changed.

Your relationships may have changed.

What attracts you may have changed.

What you are willing to tolerate definitely may have changed.

But none of that means the sensual part of your life has an expiration date.

And perhaps one of the most interesting things about becoming an older woman is discovering that other people don’t necessarily see you the way society taught you to see yourself.

Including younger men.

A COMPLIMENTARY GUIDE FROM
SEX, SENSUALITY & THE SENIOR WOMAN